tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095738425923213725.post919876605418020767..comments2014-06-12T07:00:43.059-07:00Comments on Fowlington Buzz: MilestonesElle Fowlerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06087578826371082842noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095738425923213725.post-91471485818683885022012-11-15T13:52:50.170-08:002012-11-15T13:52:50.170-08:00I agree with Kristi. It may not feel like you are ...I agree with Kristi. It may not feel like you are getting anywhere in healing, but I can tell you are. There's no time restraints on grieving a loss like this. But you are being the healthiest you can about it. You always allow yourself to acknowledge and really feel those hard feelings, no matter when they pop up. It must be gut wrenching to have those feelings at all, but it's much better for you to acknowledge them and be able to release them rather than bottle them up inside. Just keep doing what you are doing, friend. One day a time, thats all you can do. You know you are so loved. AirForceWifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10706483652106517723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3095738425923213725.post-65555635042686195762012-11-13T07:42:18.570-08:002012-11-13T07:42:18.570-08:00I don't think it will ever be easier, at least...I don't think it will ever be easier, at least not easy. However, I do think that you will learn, over time, how you can best fit that part of your life with the rest of what's going on around you. I think what you did at the wedding was perfect. I only wish I had been there to give you hugs when you needed them. <br /><br />I also think you have one thing completely right. Rowan may not be physically here to celebrate with us all, but he's always with you. He's a part of you and nothing can change that. And what's most beautiful about it all is that you've made him a positive part of your life. Not everyone who's lost someone can say that. If you ask me, you're still doing an amazing job. With what, you might ask. Everything. klcalderhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08605426948827802922noreply@blogger.com